Raising Confident Kids: Bless Them With Words of Affirmation (Audiobook Transcript)

Chapter 6: Bless Them with Words of Affirmation

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By this time you know that I love stories when sharing examples. So… Let’s begin with a story of a father named Matt and his daughter, Lily. 



Every night before bed, Matt would sit beside her, sharing a moment of quiet and encouragement. He’d say things like, “Lily, you have such a kind heart. I see how much you care about others, and I know you’re going to make a positive difference in the world.” At first, it felt like a small gesture. But over time, Matt noticed that Lily would walk into new situations with a quiet, calm confidence. Those words of affirmation became part of her inner voice, helping her believe in her own strengths.




This simple practice of blessing a child with words of affirmation is a powerful way to strengthen their self-worth. Speaking positive, encouraging words into their life becomes a touchstone they can rely on, especially when faced with challenges or doubts. 




Just as in biblical times, when blessings from a parent held deep meaning, your words can serve as a reminder of their value and potential. Scripture captures this beautifully in Proverbs 18:21, which says, “The tongue has the power of life and death.” Spoken with love, our words can uplift, encourage, and help children see themselves through the lens of faith and positivity.




To make this a daily habit, try setting aside a specific time, like bedtime or a quiet moment after dinner, to speak a blessing over your child. Keep it simple and genuine, focusing on qualities unique to them, such as their kindness, creativity, or determination. You might say, “I love how you always try to help others, and I know you’re going to do amazing things.” Or, “I see so much strength in you, and I’m proud of the person you’re becoming.”




In addition to spoken blessings, you could also write little notes of affirmation for them to find in their lunchbox or on their desk. A simple message like “I’m proud of you” or “I believe in you” can be a powerful reminder of your support.




Set aside some time to try this next activity: Take a few moments and think about qualities you admire in your child. Reflect on ways you see them handling challenges or showing kindness. Then, craft a short affirmation or blessing based on those observations. Remember, it doesn’t need to be complicated—simple and heartfelt words are often the most impactful. Maybe something like, “I’m grateful for your patience and how you treat others with respect.”




One practice I wholeheartedly endorse is that of daily prayer with your child. Let your child hear you thanking God for them and asking His abundant protection and blessing upon them. This practice above all others is the greatest blessing you can bestow. It will knit their young heart to yours, and to their Heavenly Parent, with a golden thread that is not easily broken.




As you put these words into practice, you’ll likely notice how they bolster your child’s confidence and encourage a strong, positive self-image. Over time, these affirmations become part of their inner dialogue, shaping the way they see themselves and interact with the world. By regularly blessing them with words of affirmation, you’re offering a gift that will support them long into the future, a reminder of their worth that they can carry through life’s challenges and achievements.


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